We could go on and talk about body image issues or numbers of same sex siblings, or whatever theory is the new kid on the block for either the pro-gay or anti-gay movements. Their OGF is gay; I am gay. I was in my late twenties when I bought my first gay magazine and admitted that this was where my thoughts and feelings lay, but I still resisted. I don't want my gay friends to know I am Gay: Why don't I have any gay friends? Check out ReachOut Forums - a safe and monitored space to hear from others discussing issues around their sexuality. Because, being what we are, makes it a necessity.
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Am I bad because I don't want to be gay? Website design by Creative Stream. Questions submitted to this column are not guaranteed to receive responses. There are plenty of gay clubs and bars in New York that are filled with gay clones: He's got his fabulous cars to keep him warm is that working? But many friends had the same experience as children and are entirely heterosexual.
They urged me to do something about my feelings and I joined a couple of gay dating agencies. The supposed point of connection would be laughable, if it weren't so often assumed: As puberty began I was as instinctively drawn to some of the boys as they were instinctively drawn to some of the girls. And although sexual abuse is obviously deeply damaging there is not much evidence that it can have that kind of effect. See Steve Alexander's answer to How do you "turn bisexual"? Like all good things, religion needs to be utilized in ways that are positive. Some are part of a blame game.